IN MY DREAMS...

Last night I had a terrible dream that Daniel told me he had to marry someone while he was married to me! He had a big wedding (again) but with this new blond girl... I was invited.. but ignored and wasn't allowed to sit with Daniel or his new wife. I felt like I was put on the back burner... the weird thing was that I knew Daniel still loved me... but he was now having to spend time with his new wife. He even had a parade for her and her family. I had to find something to wear to get his attention... but all I could find was a short skirt school girl outfit with no shoes to match!!! I woke up, and hugged him tight this morning. It's just me; I get to be his ONLY wife. How nice is that? I don't know how it would have been to live in times when men had many wives. I don't think I could do it!! Dan told me his dream... much better than mine. I was flirting with him in our parking lot. I guess he said he was really attracted to me (I must have looked stunning) "in his dreams!" Nice.

Daniel's humor again...

Just the other day I was talking to Anne on the phone about husbands... sometimes they don't offer to help much around the house. Both Anne and I are trying hard to "Help" our sweet husbands want to help us. Well... I carried on this same conversation with Dan's mom. She told me it's impossible to try to get men to do what you want. I told her that I've been able to get Dan to make the bed by encouraging him... well, I guess by telling him how glad I am after he DOES it. So... I talked to Daniel about this. He said that he was busy alot.. with work and school 24/7, it's hard to do anything else but homework or relax when he can. Well... when we got home from school, walking through 12 inches of snow... we had a couple hours before we both needed to go back to work. Dan put on a classic smile, and trudged through the house with his soaked shoes... then went straight to the bathroom, (I followed bugging him the whole way) he started going while I was standing there... then, he didn't flush while leaving the toilet seat up. To my surprise he started to leave the bathroom without washing his hands. Dan never does any of this... He is very ordered and clean... I finally understood what he was doing. Daniel... so cunning, was trying to show me that he is good, and does alot of things that I don't already notice. He does try to keep the house looking nice, and keeps the toilet flushed with lid down... he made me laugh when he was finished with his act. The crazy things he does sometimes.. This doesn't mean I won't keep trying! I have to remind him that he has magic drawers, maybe he'll do the laundry next week.. who knows?

P.s. my project at school changed to Cochlear implants. If you want to comment on this as well... Here's the background information on this:
Children are tested in the first few weeks after birth for hearing disabilities. If they are deaf, or hard of hearing they have the option of a hearing aid, or cochlear implant. The battling question is whether or not to place hearing aids on the child. Much of the deaf world feels that being deaf is a part of who they are. They take great pride in being deaf. The choice to put hearing aids must be done early, within the first month of life... when the branching of neurons in the brain takes place. (This also helps the child to learn with the aids rather than without them early, then trying to implement them later). SO the question is: Put hearing aids on, or leave them behind and allow the child to be Deaf, and join the deaf culture?