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Saturday, November 17, 2007

Letter from the past

It's strange how the past can hit you. Sometimes hard. Other times it's just a sweet memory one savors when reminded.

I was cleaning out some boxes and found a letter addressed to Anne and I.

Anne and Lisba,
I guess it's coming time for the "leaving-home-rebellion-stage" talk. I think I'm mostly out of the stage now. But when you leave, you find yourself wanting to try a lot of things you've always been told not to do, like going to a frat party... always and interesting experience, and as USU is a non-alcohol tolerant school, I don't want to know what would happen at other schools. I guess the thing most people most often (because it's not too risky) is staying out too late and not getting up for classes the next day. (you'll end up sluffing to sleep). A good thing to remember is that most professors don't particularly care if your there, because you already paid tuition. They get paid whether your there or not, show up or not. It truly is an interesting phenomenon to see new freshmen. At first they are so timid, then it's life they all dare each other to go out and do crazy things. (buy a tub of ice cream and start a war.) Those events don't take very long to clean up; a 1/2 hour at the most. One drink, one morality slip can take weeks, months and years to clean up. Also a warning that life comes pretty fast. Remember to take time out to go over the new events and to accept them, acclimatise to them, understand them.
You see so much and hear so much. Practice what you learned at a child, SELECTIVE HEARING. The hard part about this is to be careful that you're not TOO selective. Most people are out there to help you. Some are there to hurt you. Learn to rely on and obey the spirit. You'll still have heartache and pain, but it will be easier to bare, and will pass much more quickly if you do so. So listen, learn to read people and their actions (intentions) and you'll be able to avoid so much it will drive you nuts!! (oh wait you already are nuts, your a Genther!!) And if you need to talk you have all the family who's moved out to talk to. WE love you and want the best for you, don't hesitate to call or write. Laura Moore

Thanks Laura... It was a letter I don't remember reading... but the advice was good now all the same. I don't think I'll be visiting any frat houses though. Thanks for the warning. I love you and hope everyone that reads this letter can really enjoy who Laura is and how caring she is. Such a good little-big sister!! Thanks! LIS

13 comments:

Anonymous said...

I sure hope you don't visit any frat parties!! Like you said the advice is as good now as it was then. It is the same message we have all heard over and over " stay close to the Lord and He'll stay close to you.'
Love you guys hope you're enjoying married life

Anonymous said...

I knew it was Laura right away- she's such a good big sister..a little one yes- but not in heart. Thanks for sharing...that was so sweet.

TooSure said...

i completely remember that letter. i thought that it was right after she broke it off with that lame curly headed kid...what a a**hole. i knew it. i remember reading that letter and thinking...this is not the laura that parties...what is she talking about...but i guess college lets you explore...

rubberbucketsaysso said...

while i never went to a frat party, my roommate and a few of the girls on my floor went, and came back about an hour later, freaked out cause the guys brought alcohol to the party (illegal as it is at USU) and then started to 'bump and grind' dance, and then things got a little... scary. Luckily they were there with a few returned missionary friends from mountain view tower who got them out of that situation. But I still remember how scared Erin was for weeks afterwards, she'd never been exposed to something like that and couldn't believe people would do the things they were doing. Anyways, I don't remember WHEN I wrote that letter, tho i prob was right after the guy Jon likes to call "big-head" or something like that... i do remember it tho, I was wondering at the first line cause it looked familiar. Anyways, I hope it helped somewhat..

Faminy o Chaos said...

Curly headed guy...yes..the big headed boy who thought he new it all...grrr!! rowrf!! Rwof!!

I would never have thought she could put her thoughts into words so succinctly. I'm impressed, usually when you hear her say anything..its all light hearted and non intensive..hmm...this is a Laura I wasn't aware of..only the stubborn and 'I'm right' Laura..although she has always been very patient with me..yet stubborn....hmm I'm going to have to redo my will.

rubberbucketsaysso said...

hee hee hee. I love Jon. You're too funny. Most anyone CAN be serious and deep when they feel the need to be. Also, it's easier to be serious when your writing a letter to someone. I recently wrote one to mom, which I haven't decided yet whether or not I'll send, cause I think it may do more harm than good, but still, I find it easier to express myself about things like that when I don't have to see people's reactions to the words, like when I'm face to face. Sounds dumb, but for me, writing is a great way to get feelings out without having other people HAVE to see them, and thus I can rewrite and rewrite till it is something that makes sense, is concise, and isn't some form of trolling.
Oh- Nate so kindly reminded me that I must have written it much later than big-head boy if I signed it Laura Moore, and also you two graduated about a year after I got married, I think, and that's about when I would have written this. Anyways, yeah...

rubberbucketsaysso said...

And Jon, I AM ALWAYS right.....
except when I'm wrong....

TooSure said...

no i think that elisabeth made that last part up about it saying Laura moore...i am pretty sure...anyway...if you wrote a letting to mom(gleneen) i would think twice about sending it because she will hold on forever and it will suck going to visit which means that you wont come very often which really sucks for dad..especially when everyone knows that he is most happy with all of his children around...he was so happy at the reunions..just to relax and hang out with those he loves...i hope that just writing the letter is therapeutic enough so you dont have to send it and make things worse for dad. just a thought...

TooSure said...

also...if lis reads these...you can just blog on your own...you have to comment on everyone else's blog too...

rubberbucketsaysso said...

I mainly just wrote it, not to complain about everything that happened but to help her see that she needs to work on herself... because I think it's so sad that she doesn't like herself... I just don't think that she'll take it in a good way.

Faminy o Chaos said...

your probably right about that letter. She would most likely not see anything except what hurt her. It is how her mind works..if we have already hurt her...then we can't do it anymore, right? I used to write poetry for the same reason. I could get out stress that way...and not have to express it verbally...but...it seems I have gone more to the verbal aspect now.

TooSure said...

i meant to say CANT on my last post.

Hot MMMama said...

I agree with Anne Girl, you need to come around here... even I can't visit the blogs as often as I want... but we would sure like to see you some more!

Missing you.

Congrats on your almost 2 Month Anniv!

(I think your 2 Month Anniversary is the McD's Anniversary? j/k).